When I first started out I was trying to find a way to do a two fold goal...to push myself to stop waiting for the right time to take charge of my life and to stop trying to live up the the expectations of what others The trickle down effect has been remarkable, and my ultimate goal now is to help bring that confidence and ability to live a healthy lifestyle to others.
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Friday, August 7, 2015
Fit Family Challenge Days 6-9
I am not going to lie. I have had moments in these past few days where any one of the above excuses could have worked. I am PROUD to say that I have been pushing through. The whole family has been. It's actually been kind of inspirational. It helped that the girls already had pre-planned activities, but they have been god about making sure the hubs and I made time for ourselves too.
So, since last we met, this is what I have been up to:
Day 6: walking
Day 7: swimming and walking (mini me crushed 2.25 miles with me on our walk)
Day 8: rest
Day 9: walk
Now I know what you might be thinking...um, hello, did you see Day 8? Yes, I did. i lived it. But after an hour of lap swimming and a 2.25 mile walk, I was starting ton get some pain back in my hip and didn't want to totally derail my ART therapy from the day before too so I opted to rest...just aiming for my step goal.
This has been a pretty great week. I have been monitoring the food much more closely and making time for myself, as well as fit time for the family. I think it may be starting to stick for the kids too. They are learning that just because they have soccer everyday or dance they can still do other activity as well. I mean, on day 7...we all swam together as a family for an hour, taking turns doing laps and swimming around with mini. And THEN we all had other activities after that as well. It was not so long ago that the kids would comeback at us with something like "But I had gym today" or "I should really save my energy for practice." Even THEY are cutting back on the excuses as they see the benefits they are getting.
My oldest...is down almost 15 pounds and looks stronger then I ever remember. We are taking advantage of this weekends Tax-free holiday here in Ohio to buy her all new jeans for school. I was so proud when she stated that she needed a size bigger in her skinny jeans to fit over her "muscular thighs." And mini me...she is crushing things in acro that two months ago she didn't' have the strength to do, the swimming is really making a difference in our arm strength.
So today starts day 10, just over a month to go before vacation and the hubs and I have a swim date planned for tonight while the girls are at dance/soccer. If it's just the two of us we can just focus on doing laps and building our strength and lung capacity. I mean, whew, I have an all new respect for swimmers. It's hard.
What are your plans for the weekend?
Monday, August 3, 2015
Fit Family Challenge and a new twist
I found this picture online courtesy of Poppy over at Facing40 and thought, how perfect that this shows up on my radar right now. Ultimately, this is my goal.. I have two daughters, one that is a full fledged teen going into high school in a few short weeks and one that truly is my little sponge. Dad and I can say LOTS of things, but a s mother...as a woman, I am the person their sweet and crazy little estrogen filled minds will look to first. This is why I try and keep myself accountable. I want to be healthy for me of course...to feel good and be comfortable in the skin I'm in...but I also want to be a good example to my girls (that and the added bonus that the healthier I am, the longer I can make them crazy in these lives of ours) LOL.
I am VERY proud to say that we are five days into the Fit Family Challenge in our house and we are still going strong. Even the pup has been getting more exercise as we have been taking her on our hikes and letting her swim in the river. Here is a recap of what we have done so far:
Day 1: Swimming in the pool
Day 2: Swimming in the pool
Day 3: 2.75 mile bike ride (Mini me was feeling rough by the end of this one)
Day 4: Swimming in the pool
Day 5: Hike in the woods
Now some of these days had overlapping things...we hiked a few days actually, but yesterday that was our main exercise. I feel like whatever is our main source of focus with exercise is what we will track. It makes me feel pretty good seeing how well we are doing, and this is NOT counting that fact that I have been pretty good with my step goals too.
I have been so proud of us that I forgot part of the other side of this coin, and that is where my new "twist" comes in. As a woman getting closer each year to the big 4-0, I have seen this change in my metabolism. It is not the rapid fire friend of my 20's, not even the still chugging along friend of my early 30's. It has gotten slower, and to me it feels like it has gotten S--L--O--W--E--R. This is hard when you have been pretty blessed in this arena for the better part of a 15 years. My metabolism has always been there to keep my happy despite what I achieved in the exercise arena. Well, no more I say. This brings me to the new "twist" I am adding to my version of our fit family challenge.
I am generally pretty good about tracking my food on MFP. But lately I have gotten into the habit of allowing the hard work I do with my workouts allow me more food. Like if my goal is 1400 cals/day, and I burn 300 working out...I have gotten into the habit of allowing myself 1700 for the day. And where this is OK, I know, it's not helping me remove those last few pounds I want to remove. And when getting on the scale I also am taking into account that with the renewed dedication to working out I have to allow for some influx with muscle rebuild, I still need to be better about the choices I am making and the indulgences I am allowing.
Today I start fresh with MFP and I am aiming to eat the allotted calories for me each day. No more, no less (well not too many less...I need the fuel to workout out). I am committed to doing this for a week and see how I feel and how successful I am.
If you have any great family fitness ideas, please share them! I love swimming and getting some laps in, but I need a little variety as well. And with soccer this week for the big kid and dance camp for the little, finding time to get to the pool will be tricky for me.
I am VERY proud to say that we are five days into the Fit Family Challenge in our house and we are still going strong. Even the pup has been getting more exercise as we have been taking her on our hikes and letting her swim in the river. Here is a recap of what we have done so far:
Day 1: Swimming in the pool
Day 2: Swimming in the pool
Day 3: 2.75 mile bike ride (Mini me was feeling rough by the end of this one)
Day 4: Swimming in the pool
Day 5: Hike in the woods
Now some of these days had overlapping things...we hiked a few days actually, but yesterday that was our main exercise. I feel like whatever is our main source of focus with exercise is what we will track. It makes me feel pretty good seeing how well we are doing, and this is NOT counting that fact that I have been pretty good with my step goals too.
I have been so proud of us that I forgot part of the other side of this coin, and that is where my new "twist" comes in. As a woman getting closer each year to the big 4-0, I have seen this change in my metabolism. It is not the rapid fire friend of my 20's, not even the still chugging along friend of my early 30's. It has gotten slower, and to me it feels like it has gotten S--L--O--W--E--R. This is hard when you have been pretty blessed in this arena for the better part of a 15 years. My metabolism has always been there to keep my happy despite what I achieved in the exercise arena. Well, no more I say. This brings me to the new "twist" I am adding to my version of our fit family challenge.
I am generally pretty good about tracking my food on MFP. But lately I have gotten into the habit of allowing the hard work I do with my workouts allow me more food. Like if my goal is 1400 cals/day, and I burn 300 working out...I have gotten into the habit of allowing myself 1700 for the day. And where this is OK, I know, it's not helping me remove those last few pounds I want to remove. And when getting on the scale I also am taking into account that with the renewed dedication to working out I have to allow for some influx with muscle rebuild, I still need to be better about the choices I am making and the indulgences I am allowing.
Today I start fresh with MFP and I am aiming to eat the allotted calories for me each day. No more, no less (well not too many less...I need the fuel to workout out). I am committed to doing this for a week and see how I feel and how successful I am.
If you have any great family fitness ideas, please share them! I love swimming and getting some laps in, but I need a little variety as well. And with soccer this week for the big kid and dance camp for the little, finding time to get to the pool will be tricky for me.
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
Family Challenge Day 1
My hubby is still in recovery mode from his back surgery. We had hoped that by the end of the 90 day window from the surgeon he would be back to 100%, that is not quite the case. When he was in the worst part of his pain, he had lots of numbness from where his disc was pressing on the nerve that ran down his leg into his foot. He had pain, numbness and at times had to walk with a cane. For someone with a VERY physical job, this was hard...add in our two very active children and it was near impossible.
So now we are cleared by the doc, he can go back to doing everything he did before the surgery...but he still has this numbness from time to time and residual pain. It's so hard for me to watch him be in pain and suffer...so what to do? Well, last night we were sitting in our family room after dinner and he looks at me and says, "Lets see how healthy we can be from now until vacation." Now, we have had these little challenges before, but there is more at stake this time. I know he is worried about begin able to walk around Disney for a few days with how he is currently feeling. With that in mind, there was no need to pause, I knew this would be good. "Ok, lets do it!"
So here we are on day one...we have 42 days until we leave and I think that maybe by doing SOMEthing everyday it will help build strength back up in his muscles that was lost during his pre-surgical time and hopefully (fingers and toes crossed) re-strengthening this will help with his pain.
This little challenge is a two-fold one for me though. I have decided to help get myself back in the habit of sitting here with YOU more to blog each day of the challenge as well. What the what?!?! Yep, I'm going to do my best to sit down at least for a few minutes everyday and keep you up-to-date on how we are doing as well as keep my self honest and accountable about how we are doing.
How does that sound? What I am most excited about with this one is our inclusion of the kiddos too! It really is a full family challenge, and to me that makes it the best! So, what do we have planned for day one? Swimming.
My big girl had a soccer showcase this past weekend on the other side of the state so we all packed up and headed down. She stayed with her team in one hotel and Mom, dad and lil sis stayed elsewhere. Sher is going to be a freshman and we were literally just down the way from her so if she needed anything we were right there...but we tried to give her the freedom of being with the coaches, team and team managers. We know we have to loosen the strings some now that she is in high school.
Anywho...if you know me then you know that I generally don't swim. It seems tat whenever we have access to a pool the water is always far colder than I would like, so I just don't do it. Well...after 4 hours in the car and sitting through 3 hours of games in 90+ degree heat, I was game for he hotel pool. It was magical. The water felt perfect. We got in and swam around for the better part of 45 minutes before getting dressed and going out to dinner (a nice anniversary steak dinner to top of the night for us and some delish looking ribs for Mini Me).
The next morning Mini wanted to swim again...with how well behaved and patient she has been so far sitting and cheering on her big sis through the heat...how could we say no?!? My first thought too was, "well we were SO hot yesterday that is why the water felt so good, today I'm sire will be no dice." Much to my surprise the water felt even BETTER the next morning. So Mini Me hopped in while Dadoo hit the hot tub for a few...then we had a nice family swim, ending with Momma getting a few minutes in the hot tub. This renewed my faith in swimming a bit. Top that off with the hubs stating both the first night and next morning how good it felt on his leg to be in the pool and how that relief actually carried out into the day for him. Swimming is going to be a BIG part of this challenge.
So here we go, time to "dive in!"
So now we are cleared by the doc, he can go back to doing everything he did before the surgery...but he still has this numbness from time to time and residual pain. It's so hard for me to watch him be in pain and suffer...so what to do? Well, last night we were sitting in our family room after dinner and he looks at me and says, "Lets see how healthy we can be from now until vacation." Now, we have had these little challenges before, but there is more at stake this time. I know he is worried about begin able to walk around Disney for a few days with how he is currently feeling. With that in mind, there was no need to pause, I knew this would be good. "Ok, lets do it!"
So here we are on day one...we have 42 days until we leave and I think that maybe by doing SOMEthing everyday it will help build strength back up in his muscles that was lost during his pre-surgical time and hopefully (fingers and toes crossed) re-strengthening this will help with his pain.
This little challenge is a two-fold one for me though. I have decided to help get myself back in the habit of sitting here with YOU more to blog each day of the challenge as well. What the what?!?! Yep, I'm going to do my best to sit down at least for a few minutes everyday and keep you up-to-date on how we are doing as well as keep my self honest and accountable about how we are doing.
How does that sound? What I am most excited about with this one is our inclusion of the kiddos too! It really is a full family challenge, and to me that makes it the best! So, what do we have planned for day one? Swimming.
My big girl had a soccer showcase this past weekend on the other side of the state so we all packed up and headed down. She stayed with her team in one hotel and Mom, dad and lil sis stayed elsewhere. Sher is going to be a freshman and we were literally just down the way from her so if she needed anything we were right there...but we tried to give her the freedom of being with the coaches, team and team managers. We know we have to loosen the strings some now that she is in high school.
Anywho...if you know me then you know that I generally don't swim. It seems tat whenever we have access to a pool the water is always far colder than I would like, so I just don't do it. Well...after 4 hours in the car and sitting through 3 hours of games in 90+ degree heat, I was game for he hotel pool. It was magical. The water felt perfect. We got in and swam around for the better part of 45 minutes before getting dressed and going out to dinner (a nice anniversary steak dinner to top of the night for us and some delish looking ribs for Mini Me).
The next morning Mini wanted to swim again...with how well behaved and patient she has been so far sitting and cheering on her big sis through the heat...how could we say no?!? My first thought too was, "well we were SO hot yesterday that is why the water felt so good, today I'm sire will be no dice." Much to my surprise the water felt even BETTER the next morning. So Mini Me hopped in while Dadoo hit the hot tub for a few...then we had a nice family swim, ending with Momma getting a few minutes in the hot tub. This renewed my faith in swimming a bit. Top that off with the hubs stating both the first night and next morning how good it felt on his leg to be in the pool and how that relief actually carried out into the day for him. Swimming is going to be a BIG part of this challenge.
So here we go, time to "dive in!"
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Currently-June 2015
I have been reading Coffee Cake and Cardio for a few years now, and just LOVE it. If you haven't checked out her site yer....WHAT IS STOPPING YOU?!?!?! She has been doing a monthly series since early 2014 called "Currently" and I always enjoy reading her updates. I have noticed other bloggers loving this idea too (most recently Carrots 'N' Cake, so I thought....why not give it a try?
Currently: June 2015...so much good has come to our family this month. I am settling in to my new job nicely (which as ah-may-zing BTW), hubby's back recovery is going well, then girls are killing it in their individual activities and I have rediscovered the gym. :)
Current Celebration: My little mini me was invited to audition for her dance studio's competition dance company. She went in there, learned her routines, practiced her heart out and MADE IT!! So proud of that little 5 year old ball of determination!
Current Confession: I have a TON of scrapbook stuff for my girls, and and TON of well intended ideas...but I am TERRIBLE about actually doing them.
Current Product Find: Ok, so this is really a "current" find as we discovered our love for it last year, but with the official start of summer coming up and its resurgence in our life over the past few weeks...my current product find/love is Hawaiian Tropic Silk Hydration. It's light, it smells nice and it makes my skin feel great!
Current Plan: Working out. It should seem like a no-brainer right? But it hasn't been. This hip thing that I am STILL dealing with has made it rough, but I am getting there. The hubs has been inspirational here. He is killing it with his workouts and he is still only allowed to do "so much" since surgery. But he is giving that "so much" 110%.
Current Book: I am without right now and it is awful! PLEASE send some recommendations!!!!
Current Purchase: My first 5K registration! If you have been reading my blog for a while then you know that I have been wanting to do this for a long, I mean LONG, time, but something always comes up...injury, time, excuse after excuse. Well, I have officially registered for my first one. A group of us will be running to honor the memory of a dear friend on July 4. We are doing the Smiles for Sophie Forever run to benefit childhood brain cancer.
Current Drink: Lemon water. I have always loved infused water, but it seems like recently the hubs has discovered the taste of lemon water and always has fresh sliced lemons now in the fridge.
Current Holy Moly: My baby is done with kindergarten and my big girl is off to high school. WOW! I am still trying to process all that.
Current Show: I have been on a rather dark streak with my netflix binging...currently it is Dexter. I read the first book and liked it, so decided to try out the series.
Current Want: Flipbelt. I have an iPhone6+ which I LOVE but the idea of wearing that in an armband makes me nutty! If anyone wants to buy me one as a congrats for signing up for my first 5K...let me know, I'll tell you wear to mail it. ;)
Current Obsession: Unplugged time with the fam! It's hard with a teenager and an iPad savvy 5 year old, but we are managing it. They are good about getting out and getting active...so I'm ok with SOME time on devices (especially since the big one is doing summer reading on hers and the little one is practicing 1st grade website a lot...but there is also that time when it's brain rot TV or youtube). So I am pushing for LOTS of fun family together time with NO devices....mom and dad included. :)
Currently: June 2015...so much good has come to our family this month. I am settling in to my new job nicely (which as ah-may-zing BTW), hubby's back recovery is going well, then girls are killing it in their individual activities and I have rediscovered the gym. :)
Current Celebration: My little mini me was invited to audition for her dance studio's competition dance company. She went in there, learned her routines, practiced her heart out and MADE IT!! So proud of that little 5 year old ball of determination!
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| working it on picture day this past spring |
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| ready to go at auditions |
Current Confession: I have a TON of scrapbook stuff for my girls, and and TON of well intended ideas...but I am TERRIBLE about actually doing them.
Current Product Find: Ok, so this is really a "current" find as we discovered our love for it last year, but with the official start of summer coming up and its resurgence in our life over the past few weeks...my current product find/love is Hawaiian Tropic Silk Hydration. It's light, it smells nice and it makes my skin feel great!
Current Plan: Working out. It should seem like a no-brainer right? But it hasn't been. This hip thing that I am STILL dealing with has made it rough, but I am getting there. The hubs has been inspirational here. He is killing it with his workouts and he is still only allowed to do "so much" since surgery. But he is giving that "so much" 110%.
Current Book: I am without right now and it is awful! PLEASE send some recommendations!!!!
Current Purchase: My first 5K registration! If you have been reading my blog for a while then you know that I have been wanting to do this for a long, I mean LONG, time, but something always comes up...injury, time, excuse after excuse. Well, I have officially registered for my first one. A group of us will be running to honor the memory of a dear friend on July 4. We are doing the Smiles for Sophie Forever run to benefit childhood brain cancer.
Current Drink: Lemon water. I have always loved infused water, but it seems like recently the hubs has discovered the taste of lemon water and always has fresh sliced lemons now in the fridge.
Current Holy Moly: My baby is done with kindergarten and my big girl is off to high school. WOW! I am still trying to process all that.
Current Show: I have been on a rather dark streak with my netflix binging...currently it is Dexter. I read the first book and liked it, so decided to try out the series.
Current Want: Flipbelt. I have an iPhone6+ which I LOVE but the idea of wearing that in an armband makes me nutty! If anyone wants to buy me one as a congrats for signing up for my first 5K...let me know, I'll tell you wear to mail it. ;)
Current Obsession: Unplugged time with the fam! It's hard with a teenager and an iPad savvy 5 year old, but we are managing it. They are good about getting out and getting active...so I'm ok with SOME time on devices (especially since the big one is doing summer reading on hers and the little one is practicing 1st grade website a lot...but there is also that time when it's brain rot TV or youtube). So I am pushing for LOTS of fun family together time with NO devices....mom and dad included. :)
Monday, January 5, 2015
Inching closer to the goal
As we all trudge forward into another glorious year, I felt like this picture was a perfect mindset to start off the year. I wrote a piece( for The Journey) called Ho-Ho-Hold On that hit on the New Years Resolution phenomenon..ALL those bodies in the gym...but it was about then that too...it was about taking those small steps towards the bigger goal. What a perfectly named site right, The JOURNEY because that IS what it is all about.
I decided this year to try something different. I've talked about accountability, and that is SO important, but what have I really put at stake? What measurable goals have I shared with you? None. How do you know how I am doing other than through these fabulous updates? You don't. How do I really know? I don't. and that isn't fair...to you, or to me. So this year I am laying it all out there.
It has been a rough few weeks. This hip pain has only gotten worse, so I am FINALLY going to see another doctor and see what we can do. My hubby is having a similar problem, so there has to be something more to it all then just an overworked hip flexor muscle. I am excited about our appointments because we are meeting with a very accomplished kinesiologist and will both be getting full work ups...nutrition, blood work, alignment, everything. It has been hard with all this pain to even walk sometimes, so I am DEFINITELY not at a happy place on the scale...but even that doesn't matter. The goal is to get there. The goal is to see what I am doing to my body and correct the things that aren't working properly.
All that being said...it's time to look at hard numbers. I am a vain person. I have NEVER posted numbers like this before, but I think in order to make it sink in for myself...I need to be as honest as possible with myself...and with you, so here it goes.
As of this morning, Monday 1/15/15:
Weight: 131 (not since I was preggers have I hit this number)
Bust: 34
Waist: 27
Hips: 38
Thighs: 22
How do I set a goal from here? Inch wise I have no idea...less is better I guess, right?!?! weight wise, I am at the high end of normal for my height...so I would like to drop at least 10. Not a huge amount, but they always say the last 10 are the hardest. I have my work cut out for me. I will keep you posted, and will update the numbers once a month. I will let you know what the new doc says too...I am excited to see how my inner workings are doing. I think I will be in for a shock. The general stuff is good, that I know from having them done in November (cholesterol, BP, etc), this will go into things like thyroid and liver function, general nutrition, etc.
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Tuesday, November 4, 2014
Wow...I'm thinking like a real grown up
t feels as though it has been forever since I posted. I am not sure where the time goes sometimes. I have the best of intentions and have so much to share with you, but then life gets in the way. Isn't that always how it seems to go?!?! Well my friends not today. Today I am making YOU a priority. Doesn't that sound sweet, I wont lie though…this is only partially for you. By taking this time, these few moments to update you…I am making time for ME! Where to begin.
Over the weekend I saw something that scared me, shamed me and disgusted me. It was the number on the scale in my bathroom. Now this post is not going to be a shamefest. I was actually more disgusted on the whys of this number than the number itself. I know that I don’t always make the best food choices, but I am human hear my stomach roar! I also know that I am not eating every meal from a box or wrapper though. I don’t always get in the workouts I should, but I have upped my step goal by 2000 steps a day in the past few months. I am walking 3-3.5 miles everyday at lunch during the workweek, I am hitting my step goal earlier in the days on the weekends. I was coaching soccer and running around with my kiddos 2 days a week…how did this happen?!?!
Before you jump on the “muscle weighs more than fat” band wagon, let me assure you that I am aware of that and that in this circumstance, it’s not the issue either. I can see the loss of tone my laziness has brought on. But it has given me reason to pause.
I am just as bad as everyone else out there. I know we all want to be the person that “doesn't care about what then pics in the magazines look like” or the person that can say, “as long as I’m healthy I don’t care what the number on the scale says.” I agree. I am that person to a point. Where does that point end…at the number I saw this weekend. If I was more secure, I would share it with you…but I know that YOU know that its different for all of us. We all have a number that scares us. One that defines us. I hit mine. i knew what it was before, so this was no shock…I just didn't plan on seeing it again for a long time.
Now, I have read that after 30 people tend to put on 10 pounds a year after 30. WHAT! That wont be me. I will defy all odds…well l guess what, I have less than 3 years to now prove that wrong. This weekend, I saw THAT number. This weekend my eyes opened wide, as wide as my butt felt. ;)
Is this irreversible? No of course not. But I am realizing (slowly and in my own denial riddled way) that I have to make changes if I want to see changes. Not the kind of changes that are obvious, eat better/exercise more, but the kind of choices like really monitoring what I put into my body and how it reacts. I can feel sometimes how foods I have always loved make me feel differently now. They don’t all agree with me the way they used to…examples you ask? Gluten and nuts stand out the most. I’m not trying to be hip with the gluten, I can actually see and feel a difference in my body when I cut the gluten out though. I drop a few pounds in just a few days from water. I can see my belly flatten out, it’s just so darn hard to cut gluten all together and without having a legit medical reason too…I get lazy.
I know that I am not alone in this fight, this journey. How do you cope with this?
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Wednesday, September 11, 2013
Always Remember
I will always remember and never forget that fateful day, as we all will. Today I stop and say a prayers of thanks. To all of the men and women who have fought tirelessly throughout history for our country, for our freedom. I say a prayer for the people who perished that fateful day. I say a prayer for their family and friends. I say a prayer the medics, police, firefighters, first responders, everyone who risked their own lives to save as many as possible. I say a prayer for a city still healing. I say a prayer for my children, that they may never live through such a terrifying attack in their own lifetimes. I say a prayer for the world.
Days like today make me stop and really think. The number on the scale, the amount of reps or calories. It's all so small in the grand scheme of things. Always remember!
Monday, October 1, 2012
Where's My Cape?
So, how many of you want to conquer everything but just dont' have the hours in the day or the stamina to do it all? I am constantly jealous of my BFF who is a stay at home mom. Her house is always clean, her scrapbooks are all caught up, she works out when she wants to...I WANT THAT! But, my situation is not the same as hers...I work full time and my children are in more activities then hers and life is just different for the two of us. I dont' begrudge her anything, I just wish I had a cape some days and the superhero ability to do it all.
This comes on the heels of a weekend in which , yes I indulged a bit, but not in excess as far as I thought...yet the scale seemed to think otherwise. I was SHOCKED this morning when I got on the scale...shocked I say. My hubs always tells me that I have to move the scale around and check a few times and take the "average" because our calibration is sometimes sub-par...but this was not just a calibration issue. This was a full on assault of the numbers. I mean, wow. WTH!
I have been feeling "doughy" lately, as that is the only word that seems suitable. But I had a great week at the gym...well, two weeks ago. I know I need to be better, and should have been building oin that momentum and moving onward and upward last week, but schedules and need for sleep got the better of me. I even was at a point where I was craving comfort style food and embraced that in my cooking last week (although, I am SUPER proud of my version of beef stroganoff that I made).
So, this morning when I saw those numbers staring back at me I knew it was time to take charge and jump start this body of mine. First plan of attack, I made myself a sensible breakfast. I made 2 eggs to start my day off with a burst of protein and had a small glass of OJ. I even went through the cabinet and got my vitamins out to hopefully help kick my sleepiness. I made sure to log everything with myfitnesspal.com (something I have also been slacking in) and packed a sensible lunch with controlled portions. It's a start. I am hoping that the hubs gets out of work early enough to relieve me at soccer practice and maybe I can even get a workout in tonight. I may need to think about getting up earlier and trying to workout before work. It just means I will be going to bed earlier...which means getting the little one to bed earlier...so that is actually a good thing, right?!?! I still need to find time though where I can have some QT with the hubs. Where is that cape again????
So my request to you is to help keep me going, keep me challenged. I am going to make sure I have time each day to "come clean" to you...or sing my own praises...hopefully more of the latter. I need to get back on track so I can start feeling good about myself again. When I feel good, I can see my positive energy radiate out through my kiddos and husband and it makes the world a brighter place, well, my world anyways.
With that being said...what is your challenge to me this week? I am going to ask you to help me. Be more than just my inspiration and source of accountability...be my virtual trainers and chefs. I implore you!!
Now for a little Friend Making Monday, even I need something a little lighter after all that :)
If you’ve taken part in FMM then you know the
rules. If you’re new, please take a moment to answer this week’s question on
your own blog then add your link in the comments section here at: www.alltheweigh.com
so we can all see your FMM questions and answers. Please invite your blog
readers to add their links here too so everyone has to opportunity to be seen.
The idea is to connect with other awesome bloggers so take a moment to post
your own FMM post and comment on a couple of other posts. Now it’s time for
this week’s topic!
Uniquely You
1) Do you prefer to talk or text? Lately
I would say I prefer to text, as I can do it anywhere and feel like I’ve been
running all the time from activity to activity.
2) How often do you make your bed? I
make it every day, but generally after work.
When I leave in the morning for work everyone in my house is asleep…so
one of the things I do after work is make beds….absolutely makes the room look
better. If my youngest is in my bed when
I leave, I will go make her bed so as to feel like at least 1 room is pulled
together. I have that fear of someone
wanting to stop by for a surprise visit and get a whole house tour…not sure
whey!
3) What sounds do you hear right now? The
water cooler in my office and the keyboard as I type.
4) List three things that you always carry
with you. Pictures of my kids, my iPhone and my lipstick.
5) What are your favorite TV shows? While
my TV time is limited to what I tape and watch when I can…I do have a few
guilty pleasure shows…Drop Dead Diva, Grey’s Anatomy, The Office, Bones and
Pretty Little Liars.
6) Is there a hobby that you’d like to
devote more time to? If so, what is it? I wish I had more time (and funds) to
scrapbook the way I’d like to. I also
want to learn to knit (properly), crochet and sew.
7) What is your favorite drink? Cherry
Coke Zero.
8) Share a couple of cool facts about your
family. My girls look exactly alike at age markers (meaning my 3 year old
looks just like my 11 year old did at 3), my husband is just as much of a neat
freak as me, I try to talk to my mom and dad a few times a week and although he
may not know it, if something were to ever happen to my husband and me my
little brother is the person I would want to take over care of my children.
9) List one thing that you will do for
yourself today. Get back on track!
10) Share something that you’re thankful
for today. My family, as I am every day.
I am a very lucky girl!
Now it's your turn to answer this week's
questions! Don't forget to come back and link up in the comments. And try to
say something to someone new this week. There are some pretty cool people
connected here. Happy Monday, friends!
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Wednesday, September 19, 2012
It' a Shoe In???
Oh dear readers, I need your help! My week of exercise immersion has been amazing so far...but I found one one thing that can be improved upon...my shoes. I guess because I was down so long with my foot injury, and workout barefoot (I know...bad me) at home I haven't given much thought to the mileage on my sneaks. That was more than apparent after my Zumba class Monday. Class itself was fine, but as the day progressed in my trusty old running shoes my dogs went from uncomfortable to downright rabid.
I know that there is a mile limit, I have informed others of those limits...but alas. So what I need from you, my fabulously stylish and well educated readers, is recommendations on shoes. I used to swear by the asics gel
I know that there is a mile limit, I have informed others of those limits...but alas. So what I need from you, my fabulously stylish and well educated readers, is recommendations on shoes. I used to swear by the asics gel
Then when those gave out I went straight back and they were different somehow. Not as comfy, so I tried some Nike shoes. They have been good...comfy, stable, supportive, but their time has come.
My hubby swears by his New Balance shoes. He has bunions and finding him shoes that were comfy and good for working out has been quite a task.
So now I turn to you...what do you think? What do you like? HELP!!
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Never Forget
Today is a day that I always stop and take stock. It's a day that I will make sure my children always remember. It's a day that was very real for my generation. Before I moved into the world of academia, I worked in professional theatre. I refer to it as my "former life." It was something I loved doing, but was not conducive to having a family...at least not in the capacity that I worked, as a Stage Manager. Imagine my excitement at 23 to be told by my boss "We are doing a new show, one that has only ever been showcased...and for financial reasons we are sending you to NYC to rehearse it for 5 weeks." OMG!! I was SO excited. Hello Big Apple!
I arrived in NYC on Monday, made my way to my kick a$$ apartment the company was putting my assistant and me up in and started to settle in. Tuesday we got up early, walked through Times Square to work and started setting up the rehearsal space. AT the time, I was still a smoker and we were outside on a smoke break when a traffic cop told us terrorists had taken over the towers. What?!?! This can't be? Then we heard it. We staggered across the street and saw the playback on the jumbo-tron of the first plane...then we looked towards the south end of the island. I will never forget.
I wanted to go home. I wanted my (then boyfriend) husband to hold me. I wanted my mom and dad. I wanted it to be a bad dream. We were immediately sent "home" and watched the news coverage all day. What else could we do. Strange city, no phone service for a few hours, we just sat and watched dumbfounded. Later that evening, after talking to family and loved ones, we left the apartment to find dinner. The feeling that was in NYC at that time, in that moment, is the feeling I wish would take hold of this country. Never have I seen a city...a mass group of strangers pull together the way they did. It wasn't natives and tourists and visitors...it was Americans. It was people going out of their way to make others feel safe, feel okay, just feel. I remember being numb until that point.
Over the next few weeks we attended vigils, saw the devastation, and tried to heal with a city that was left with a permanent scar. I was left with a permanent scar. I look back and even as I write this I can feel the tears stinging my eyes. I can taste the smoke and ash in the air, I can feel the loss...but I have hope that we can move forward. To draw strength from this horror. To give respect and honor to all those that were lost, all those that stepped up as true heroes, and continue the fight today. To never forget.
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Wednesday, July 11, 2012
New Do
Well readers, notice anything different about me? I was feeling the need for more inspiration. What better way to mix things up then with a brand new do?!?! As someone who is still relatively new to the blogging world I am still getting my bearings on how to spruce up my page. My little one is a fan of purple, and since she inspires me every day I thought in a tribute to her I would delve into the royal shade. I think I like it so far.
This has been a long week so far, but a very productive one. On Monday, we decided to try and tackle a longer walk. As I have mentioned in previous blogs, we have been averaging about 4 miles a day, but Monday we were feeling ambitious...we were feeling superior to walkers everywhere...we decided to go a bit further and test our endurance. We walked an amazing 5.68 miles on Monday. I tell you what, it was rough but SO worth it! After work that same day, I took the kiddos to the pool and my little one has taken to climbing up on the side of the "big kid" pool and jumping into my open arms. By late afternoon when we were swimming, there was just enough hint of a breeze that it was actually a bit chilly (hard to believe after weeks of 90+ degrees) so it was warmer to stay more submerged. This sounds okay until you think about a 5.68 mile walk and the need to be crouched to stay warm in the water. Two hours we jumped and climbed.
I still miss running. I miss is so much some days. I am jealous when my hubby comes home after a run, but I know that I will get back there. I do enjoy the walking. I am getting some nice color (no worries, it's "safe" tanning...gradual through my SPF 50 over time), and I am seeing my legs get a little bit trimmer each and every day). It actually helps me mentally in reminding me that it is a process. There is no instant gratification in working out/eating right . Well, I mean, there IS in the fact that you feel better (mostly in knowing you are doing yourself a favor) but the big results, the noticeable ones, take time.
I am hoping that my new "look" keeps me motivated to keep working on myself.
This has been a long week so far, but a very productive one. On Monday, we decided to try and tackle a longer walk. As I have mentioned in previous blogs, we have been averaging about 4 miles a day, but Monday we were feeling ambitious...we were feeling superior to walkers everywhere...we decided to go a bit further and test our endurance. We walked an amazing 5.68 miles on Monday. I tell you what, it was rough but SO worth it! After work that same day, I took the kiddos to the pool and my little one has taken to climbing up on the side of the "big kid" pool and jumping into my open arms. By late afternoon when we were swimming, there was just enough hint of a breeze that it was actually a bit chilly (hard to believe after weeks of 90+ degrees) so it was warmer to stay more submerged. This sounds okay until you think about a 5.68 mile walk and the need to be crouched to stay warm in the water. Two hours we jumped and climbed.
I still miss running. I miss is so much some days. I am jealous when my hubby comes home after a run, but I know that I will get back there. I do enjoy the walking. I am getting some nice color (no worries, it's "safe" tanning...gradual through my SPF 50 over time), and I am seeing my legs get a little bit trimmer each and every day). It actually helps me mentally in reminding me that it is a process. There is no instant gratification in working out/eating right . Well, I mean, there IS in the fact that you feel better (mostly in knowing you are doing yourself a favor) but the big results, the noticeable ones, take time.
I am hoping that my new "look" keeps me motivated to keep working on myself.
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